Sunday, June 5, 2011

Thoughtful Traits, Qualities, & Behaviors to be Remembered...



- As children we were encouraged to tell the truth, but as we grew older, we realized that not everybody tends to say or give importance to saying the truth and that some people lie persistently. Is it important that we speak the truth? To my mind, it is very important; no matter how ugly it is, after all it won’t be uglier than something fake or a lie.

-Never, Never let someone innocently unaware to love & treat you as a book of their life while you treat them as a chapter of your life …That’s called ‘’ A Slow Killing of Feelings & Soul ’’.


-Don't go for the looks, it can be quite deceiving. Don't go for wealth even that fades away -- go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright. Hope you find that person.


- I’ll be always doing great as long as I’m Kind, because No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted, & there is no wisdom to be found greater than Kindness.


- For me, being open-minded is being flexible and adaptable to everything without adopting it, dealing with things positively yet sticking to your Beliefs, Traditions, Values, Principles and most of all Religion to end up developing a positive, nurture and unique personal brand.


- Be Mindful that you can feel really Beautiful/Handsome only when you're able to lay your head on the pillow at night, & can say "I was a decent person today", that's when you Really Feel beautiful or Handsome.


-Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength


-Those type of Swindlers and Con-artist people who always have that thought they are Clever and Tactful minds end up discovering they were having an empty big hole in their heads.


-There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do.


-To let any kind of a relationship die away by negligence and silence is certainly not wise.


-Regret for wasted time is more wasted time.


-Only the weak are cruel. Gentleness can only be expected from the strong.


-The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in denial of what we do, even what we think. We do this because we're afraid. We fear we will not find love, and when we find it we fear we'll lose it. We fear that if we do not have love we will be unhappy.


-What we love to do we find time to do.


-Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use.


-Your reputation is in the hands of others. That's what a reputation is, you can't control that. The only thing you can control is your character.


-Happiness can be defined as the sacrifice of what we want now for what we want eventually.


-Life is very interesting. In the end, some of your greatest pains become your greatest strengths.


-The voyage of discovery lies not in seeking new horizons, but in seeing

with new eyes.

-Do not bite at the bait of pleasure, till you know there is no hook beneath it.


-The easiest kind of relationship for me is with ten thousand people. The hardest is with one.


-Wars teach us not to love our enemies, but to hate our allies.


-Every dictator is an enemy of freedom, an opponent of law.


-A dictator must fool all the people all the time and there's only one way to do that, he must also fool himself



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----I have always believed & lingered to some, ignored some, unaware some even existed, as well as making fun of some of these sayings, and couldn't make them be real in my life. However, through what I’ve been facing this year and what I shall see till the rest of my life I will always believe and stick to these quotes and get to know new others because I’ve come to realize that they're more than just sayings. In fact, they reflect the reality of our life -----


Good Luck To everybody


I've Learned...


I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words, it may be the last time you talk them.


 I've learned that we don't have to change friends, if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that something that you do in an instant, can give you heartache for life.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude, or it controls you.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and still have a good time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down, will be the one who helps you get up.

I've learned that sometimes when I am angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you learned from them and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others, but sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that just because two people argue, doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret, it may change your life forever.

I've learned that sometimes the people that you love most in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that you can't make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much i care, some people just don’t care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in life, but who you have that counts.

I've learned that you can keep going, long after you think you can't.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that even when you feel you have no more to give, a friend cries out and you find the strength to help.

I've learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives, but we are responsible for who we become.

Try, reach, want, and you may fall. But even if you do, you might be okay anyway. If you don't try, you save nothing, because you might as well be dead.